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Tuesday, 08 April 2008

Monday, 04 February 2008

  •  I went to a church retreat Fall 07. It was pretty small; maybe 10-15 people. I had a blast getting to know everyone there and because of the small size of the retreat, we all bonded together and had a kind of connection.

    Over the weekend, on of the attendees of the retreat, Jared, went snowboarding. He fell as he was doing a jump and hit his head. He was rushed to the hospital, but they were unable to save him. He was 20 years old.

    I talked to him maybe once or twice at church since that retreat. He loved the church, though; he lived an hour and a half away, but he came because he was a part of us. He was always smiling and laughing, with a great open personality. I always thought he had the soul of a surfing San Diegan born into an Oregonian body.

    I know that he died doing what he loved doing. I know that he lived his life to the fullest, and I'm not sad for him. He loved God and doing God's will on earth, but now he gets to be with Him. I honestly believe he fulfilled the purpose that God put him on earth for.

    My heart is breaking for his little sister, his parents and his girlfriend. No one likes being told "Oh it's part of God's plan" when their son, brother, boyfriend has been yanked away from them way too soon. Please pray that they find peace in God.

    I saw him last week at church, and I was planning to say hi and catch up with him. By the time I got around to it, he had already left. "Oh well. Next week," I thought.

    I should've talked to him.

Monday, 21 January 2008

  • MLK Day-- It's not just a day off

    I was talking to a friend yesterday about how I had to go to work this morning even though Seattle U gave us the day off because of Martin Luther King, Jr. Day. She said jokingly, "You should stage a sit-in at your desk [in protest of not getting the day off] and just be like, 'If it weren't for MLK, I probably wouldn't even be here right now.'"

    She was right, though.

    Hope you all had a good holiday.

Friday, 11 January 2008

  • Kenya tourism, economy devastated by violence

    "SAMBURU, Kenya (AP) -- Lounging by the hotel pool in one of Kenya's storied nature reserves, Debbie Shillito sees one small advantage to the travel warnings issued after a presidential election here sparked violence.

    "You get all the attention," Shillito, a Canadian tourist, told The Associated Press in the Samburu National Reserve, where only 15 percent of the rooms at her upscale hotel were occupied this week, leaving the staff at her beck and call. Last year at this time, the start of the high season, the hotel was 80 percent full.

    Kenya, one of the most prosperous and tourist-friendly countries in Africa, has seen up to $1 billion in losses linked to the bloody turmoil following President Mwai Kibaki's disputed re-election, officials said.

    ........"

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    The rest of the article goes on to talk about the impact that the last week of violence has had on Kenya's tourism industry, which was once Africa's most thriving. You can read the full article here.

    Shillito's comments, put simply, are absolutely revolting. The upside to mass violence, death and political instability? That the white Westerner gets her drinks filled when she wants and her every need is doted upon. Let's all sit here a moment and revel in the imperialist worldview. Isn't it great that the West has people like her to spew their ignorance and elitism to a world that already isn't (shall we say) fond of us?

    Yippee.

    Also something to note: CNN should be ashamed of themselves for even considering (let alone using) those two paragraphs as a lede. It's deplorable journalism that (among other things) shows the writer was too incompetent to show sensitivity and creativity in finding a lead-in angle.

Saturday, 08 December 2007

  • Ten Things to Know About Asian American Youth

    http://www.asian-nation.org/headlines/2007/02/ten-things-to-know-about-asian-american-youth/

    Like Asian Americans in general, young Asian Americans frequently find themselves admired, reviled, misunderstood, and/or the subject of curiosity, all at the same time. Nationally-renowned performance artist Kate Rigg and SnapDragon consultants want to change that and, as published by Yahoo News, has come up with a list of Ten Things Every Brand Should Know About Asian-American Youth:

    1. Many Asian-American youth feel excluded and misunderstood by most brands. It’s made worse by the fact that they see advertisers actively wooing the African-American and Hispanic markets.
    2. Mixed race kids are proudly identifying as Hapa, a once derogatory word in Hawaiian to mean “half.” Hapa is also slang for marijuana in Japanese (spelled Happa). Hapa is supplanting terms like Amerasian, biracial, and blasian.
    3. Asian-American youth are secret fans of “easy listening” adult contemporary music. Lite FM is a hidden passion.
    4. There’s a “hero gap” among Asian-American kids, which is being filled for many by activists from other cultures. Martin Luther King is a role model and hero to many young Asian-Americans.
    5. Most Asian-American kids refer to white people as “white people” the same way African-Americans do.
    6. Underage gambling is huge. The “new” American poker obsession is nothing new to Asian-American kids. Gambling has a long history in Asian culture. Many students Rigg spoke with are avid online gamblers and card players. Some organize private online poker tournaments.
    7. Asian-American kids want an end to the hyper-nerdy images of themselves on TV and want to see more punked-out skater and graffiti DJ images which reflect a different energy. The feeling is: Enough with the math geeks, future doctors and violinists. Asian-American kids crave street credibility -- not just academic accolades.
    8. Asian-American kids universally hate the question: Where are you from -- especially since the answers are usually something like “Westchester” or “Boston.”
    9. All things Korean are hot and getting hotter. Fashion. Foods. DJs. Online communities. Korea is the new Japan.
    10. The 15 minutes of seemingly benign American Idol fame for William Hung had a surprisingly negative effect on Asian-American students. There’s a feeling that Hung perpetuated the worst stereotypes about Asian people and gave non-Asians permission to indulge in two years of racial stereotyping and mocking.

    The list makes pretty good sense to me, although I was not aware of #3, the passion of Asian American youth for easy listening contemporary music. Who knew that someone like Kenny G would be able to rock the Asian American world?
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    Like the blog author, I did not know about #3. Easy listening contemporary music? Really?

    #8, however, is one I particularly agree with. I was at a conference a couple weeks ago here's a conversation that transpired:

    Guy: Where are you from?
    Me: Seattle U
    Guy: No, before that.
    Me: Oh! California. Northern.
    Guy: And before that?
    Me: Um.. California. I was born there [in a tone of voice that clearly said I knew what he was asking but was chagrined at the line of question]
    Guy: [Not getting it or just being obnoxious on purpose] Where are your parents from?

    I finally gave in and told him I was Chinese, which served to inspire a round of, "Oh I'm Thai and we're Asian and isn't that AWESOME, we must have tons to talk about because you're Chinese and I'm Thai." I finally extracted myself from the conversation with a distinct feeling of disgust.

    Why is that people can't just accept that I'm from California? Oh, that's right. Asians, unlike their European counterparts, can't just "blend in" to what an "American" should look like. This comes out in a series of assimilation and complex integration issues that Asian Americans (and especially American-born Asians) must deal with.